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#7: Shidduchim (I): Where Do I Begin? With Dayan Posen

Podcast: Asking For A Friend - Timely Issues. Timeless Torah. · Kehillas Federation

Opublikowano: 2026-03-15

Chazal teach that making a shidduch is as difficult as Krias Yam Suf. but what does that mean in practice for families navigating the process today? In this episode, Dayan Posen discusses the early stages of shidduchim: how parents and singles should approach the process, the role of shadchanim, and the importance of entering shidduchim with the right expectations. The conversation explores questions such as what advice parents should hear at the outset, what “realistic expectations” actually mean, whether financial considerations can justify rejecting a suitable match, and the proper guidelines for gathering and sharing information about a prospe...