It Wasn't About the Sex

Podcast: From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer · Geoff & Jody Steurer

Opublikowano: 2026-04-23

One of the most painful questions betrayed partners carry is this: Was I not enough? Many wonder whether being more available, more attractive, or more willing could have prevented the betrayal. In this episode, we challenge that belief directly and unpack why sexual betrayal is not actually about sex, even though the behaviors themselves were sexual. We explore how this myth keeps betrayed partners trapped in damaging comparisons and unnecessary self blame, while also allowing recovering partners to avoid looking at the deeper drivers behind their behavior. When couples focus only on improving their sex life, they ca...