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Episode 165 - The Good Girl Rules are a High-Demand System

Podcast: The Ex-Good Girl Podcast · Sara Bybee Fisk

Opublikowano: 2026-06-03

A high-demand system is any structure that requires a significant amount of your time, energy, and identity in exchange for belonging. We often think about high-demand religions, workplaces, families, or cultures, but there is one system that is hard to recognize because it’s so ingrained in society that it just feels like the way things are supposed to be: the good girl rules. The unspoken expectations women absorb throughout their lives function like any other high-demand system. They reward compliance, create fear around stepping outside the rules, and keep us so focused on being good enough that we ne...