#166 Why Shame Is the Enemy of Accountability — And What to Do About It with Jacob Fletcher, CMCH, CSAT

Podcast: Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal · Choosing To Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal

Opublikowano: 2026-07-02

One of the biggest obstacles to healing after betrayal isn't a lack of love — it's shame. When the person in recovery floods with shame, they lose the ability to truly listen, hold space, or take accountability. And without that, trust cannot rebuild. In this episode, Hali sits down with Jacob Fletcher, a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT), to talk about what real relational healing requires — and why slowing down is often the fastest path forward. Whether you're the partner trying to understand why accountability feels so inconsistent, or the person in recovery trying to figure out...