"Why Did You Do It?" Isn't the Real Question

Podcast: From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer · Geoff & Jody Steurer

Opublikowano: 2026-08-13

After betrayal, one question seems to take center stage: Why? Why did this happen? Why didn't you stop? Why didn't you tell me? In this episode, we explore why this question is so difficult to answer, and why even honest attempts at answering those questions often leave both partners feeling frustrated. We discuss what betrayed partners are really searching for when they ask "why," why recovering partners rarely have a satisfying answer early in recovery, and how truth, curiosity, and a willingness to understand can create far more healing than quick explanations ever could. <p...