#176 The Fight Under the Fight — Decoding What Betrayal Trauma Does to Your Everyday Arguments

Podcast: Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal · Choosing To Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal

Opublikowano: 2026-09-10

If you're rebuilding trust after infidelity, you've probably noticed something strange: small disagreements can escalate way faster and way bigger than the topic seems to deserve. A dish in the sink. A short text back. Being fifteen minutes late. In this episode, we talk about why that happens — and it's not because either of you is being dramatic. After betrayal, your nervous system starts running everyday moments through a threat filter, not just an annoyance filter. That means ordinary conflict can carry real weight underneath it: questions about safety, about control, and about repair work that hasn't fu...