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#133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships

Podcast: The Erotic Realm · Emma | Psychology of Desire

Opublikowano: 2026-09-11

What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually? In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psychology of mismatched desire, sexual compatibility and kink in relationships. We explore: What mismatched sexual desire looks like inside relationships.Why telling our partner what we really want can feel extraordinarily vulnerable.Whether an apparent “low desire” partner might simply not be having the kind of sex that activates their desire.What BDSM and kink can teach conventional couples about negotiating desire, boundaries and consent.The su...