Why You Keep Having the Same Fight with Your Wife/ Mark Groves

Podcast: Front Row Dads with Jon Vroman · Jon Vroman

Opublikowano: 2026-09-23

Every couple has a dance, and most men have never seen the steps written down. One of you closes the distance and gets louder. The other creates distance and shuts down. What makes it a loop rather than an argument is that each one's way of coping is precisely the thing the other cannot tolerate. Mark Groves names it, then takes it apart: Gottman's four horsemen, why men stonewall more than women do, and the single sentence that breaks a defensive pattern even though saying it feels awful. Then the harder half. Groves admits he...