How Did I Get So Far Into My Life and Lose Myself / 161

Podcast: Below The Circle with Dr. Phyllis · Dr. Phyllis Hayes-Reams

Opublikowano: 2026-10-14

How Did I Get So Far Into My Life—and Lose Myself? | Below the Circle Ep. 161 Dr. Phyllis explores why so many women look up after years of doing everything “right” and wonder where they went. Drawing from her own journey through academics and medicine, she explains how external evaluations can quietly shift from measuring performance to defining personal worth—and how that same measuring system follows us home into roles like spouse, mother, caregiver, friend, and church member. Over time, life becomes organized around what needs to be done next, leaving little space for joy, desire, identity...