S23E8: You Felt Close. So Why Didn’t It Go Anywhere?

Podcast: Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships · Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Opublikowano: 2026-10-20

Have you ever had a date where you talked for hours about your childhood, your deepest wounds, your hopes, your fears, maybe even slept together, and walked away thinking, Wow, we really connected? Only to have them disappear, pull away, or tell you they’re not looking for a relationship? We’re unpacking the difference between feeling intimate and actually building intimacy, and how you can create a level of closeness that feels earned, not performative or forced. We discuss how intensity often makes us feel close to someone in a way that burns out , why intimacy is not just...