The Moment You Start Managing Yourself

Podcast: Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz · Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Author

Opublikowano: 2026-03-17

In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz explores what happens the moment you stop being natural in a conversation and start managing yourself instead. If you’ve ever felt yourself drift into performance mode—monitoring your words, second-guessing how you sound, and trying to control how you’re coming across—this episode will help you understand exactly why that happens. Dr. Aziz breaks down how social anxiety can turn conversations into a subtle form of self-surveillance, where your attention leaves the present moment and gets trapped in self-criticism, overthinking, and trying to “perform” the right ve...