The Real Reasons You Say, "I Can't"

Podcast: The OWN IT Podcast with Nicole Hollar · Nicole Hollar

Opublikowano: 2026-09-24

In this episode we are discussing integrative life coach Nicole Hollar's article, "You Learned to Say, 'I Can't'," (www.nicolehollar.com/blog) where she examines why competent adults often abandon the adventurous spirit of their childhood to adopt a mindset of perceived helplessness. Nicole argues that the common refrain of "I don't know how" is rarely about a lack of intelligence, but rather a fear of vulnerability and a refusal to be seen as a beginner. This transition from active problem-solving to passive outsourcing creates a "lid" on one's personal potential, driven by the social pressure to avo...