The High Price of Avoiding Conflict

Podcast: The OWN IT Podcast with Nicole Hollar · Nicole Hollar

Opublikowano: 2026-09-22

Our discussion explores how habitual conflict avoidance functions as a damaging coping mechanism rather than a true peacemaking skill. According to behavior change expert Nicole Hollar, suppressing grievances causes issues to accumulate interest, eventually leading to unspoken resentment, passive-aggressive behavior, and the silent tracking of others' perceived failures. By failing to set clear boundaries early on, individuals inadvertently train others to overlook their needs, which eventually results in disproportionate emotional outbursts. She emphasizes that real peace requires the courage to address problems while they are small and manageable. Ultimately, the source of this discussion, her article, "Why A...