The Art of Listening So People Feel Heard

Podcast: The OWN IT Podcast with Nicole Hollar · Nicole Hollar

Opublikowano: 2026-09-29

Integrative life coach, Nicole Hollar, outlines a transformative approach to communication called active listening, which prioritizes genuine comprehension over the common urge to provide unsolicited solutions. In this episode we discuss four specific techniques from her article, "Why Listening Often Beats Problem-Solving," (www.nicolehollar.com/blog): paraphrasing, reflecting feelings, connecting emotions to facts, and clarifying—designed to make others feel truly understood. By moving away from a problem-solving mindset, individuals can allow speakers to retain their own agency and decision-making power. This method distinguishes itself from mere silence by requiring the listener to reflect the speak...