Why Being the Friend Everyone Vents To Leaves You So Tired

Podcast: 7 Good Minutes · Clyde Lee Dennis

Opublikowano: 2026-10-13

If you're the one everyone calls when things go wrong, you already know the feeling: you hang up, and it's like someone let the air out of you. That tiredness isn't a sign you care too little. It has more to do with how the listening is happening. Today's episode looks at what actually helps someone who's venting, and what just feels like it helps. Research on how people process upsetting feelings shows that warmth and comfort do one job, and thinking a problem through does another. Only one of them tends to settle the feeling. ...